A Journey to Becoming a Proverbs 31 Wife

by Kim Calhoun on January 3, 2012

This is a blog challenge from A Journey Through Learning Lapbooks. In this week’s challenge we are to write down five goals I would like to improve on as a Proverbs 31 Wife and five goals I would like to obtain in your home (organization).

Here’s Proverbs 31 as a reference:

The Wife of Noble Character

10 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.
13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.
14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar.
15 She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants.
16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.
19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:
29 “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

So here are my five goals as a Proverbs 31 wife:

1. I will give my husband more encouragement.

Sometimes, I feel like I’m get irritated with him too quickly.

2. I will get up earlier.

I would get more done if I got up before it was time for school.

3. I will be more frugal.

We are in a savings mode, but I will try to pull the belt in tighter.

4. I will work harder to bring in more money for the family.

I have a small graphic design and photography business that I need to work at more.

5. I will do more for people in need.

I want to give more to charities, and be involved with the homeless.

Here are my five goals for my home and its organization:

1. Clean out my son’s old toys and clothes.

Yes, I should have done this before Christmas.

2. Get rid of old pots and pans that I don’t use.

Why I keep a rusty cookie sheet, I’ll never know.

3. I will organize my homeschool supplies.

I need to get bins so everything is reachable but neat.

4. Donate old books.

I have a lot of books. Some of them need to depart for new homes.

5. Get rid of wall art that I will not use.

Over the years and houses, I have bought a hodge podge of wall art that does not go together. I need to yard sale it.

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Things to be Thankful For- Mrs. Shirley’s Biscuits

by Kim Calhoun on November 3, 2011

I am working with my son in our homeschool on a Thanksgiving tree. Everyday we add leaves to the tree of things we are thankful for. One of the things my son is thankful for is my biscuits. I thought this was really hilarious on many levels. Now let me tell you a little story…

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My Biscuits

My homemade biscuits are not some culinary masterpiece. They have 2 ingredients… Bisquick and milk. Yup, recipe right off the Bisquick box. My son thinks they are fabulous and whip store bought biscuits any day. I’m glad I have him snowed with my culinary expertise. I have often wanted to make the perfect biscuits from total scratch but it has never happened. Some people have the magic touch with biscuits. One such person was Mrs. Shirley, my neighbor two doors down when I was growing up.

Mrs. Shirley’s Biscuits

I have eaten a lot of biscuits in my life and none have ever topped Mrs. Shirley’s biscuits. She made them everyday, fresh, from complete scratch for her family. Mrs. Shirley had 3 children and they were the same ages as my sister and me so we were there all the time. I would do whatever I could to get to their house in the morning to get one of those biscuits. They drop or cat head biscuits. Not pretty, but perfect nonetheless. I often wondered how she made them so perfect every time. She once told me she’d had a lot of practice. I never got her recipe or watched her make them. I wish I had. I have no doubt that she had no actual recipe though. I’m sure she just poured in what she needed and they came out perfect through years of practice. I think people who have a way with biscuits like that also had a lot of love in their hearts. I think a little goes into that dough with the flour.

Maybe that’s why my son likes my biscuits so much. I certainly make them with love for him even if they are just Bisquick and milk. I am thankful for Mrs. Shirley’s biscuits not only because they are the best in the world, but for the memory of home, friends. and family they bring to mind.

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Win a $500 Apple Gift Card

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How to Have a Family Event Weekend – Part 3 The Photos

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How to Have a Family Event Weekend – Part 2 The Food

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Easy Chicken Fajitas – Product Review – Philly Cream Cheese Cooking Creme

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This is NOT one of my from scratch recipes. So, if you need a quick dinner for this is quick, easy and tasty. Philadelphia Cream Cheese Cooking Creme – A Short Review First, I wanted to try those new Philadelphia Cream Cheese Cooking Cremes. I got the Santa Fe Flavor because my family loves Mexican [...]

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5 Rules of Care for Expensive Non-Stick Cookware

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10 Homeschool Helps for Dysgraphia

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What is dysgraphia anyway? Dysgraphia falls into a sub-category of a larger disorder called dyspraxia. Dyspraxia is a motor skill disorder where the brain messages and the motor skill trying to be achieved are not connecting properly. Another sub-category of dsypraxia is dyslexia, which most people have heard of. Dyslexia is when the muscles of [...]

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5 Myths of Rheumatoid Arthritis

March 8, 2011

It has come to my attention that there are a lot of people who don’t understand what Rheumatoid Arthritis at all. It’s prevalent on TV commercials for certain drugs and most people think that it’s “just arthritis”. I’m here to tell you it’s different…much different. Myth #1 Rheumatoid Arthritis is just like regular arthritis. Arthritis [...]

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You may not be allergic to MSG – Today’s interesting link

January 4, 2011

Found this today on Chow. Very interesting article about research chefs. In one of my early marketing jobs I used to work for a private label chicken company and they had these chefs. They called them food scientists there. It seems like it could be an interesting line of work but not one I’d be [...]

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